We surveyed 1,900 members of our community to better understand the state of sex and dating in 2020. Respondents ranged in age from 18 to over 65, but the majority of were between the ages of 25-34. Take a peek below for a selection of the results!


Two is better than one

  • 77% of women polled prefer to be in a relationship 
  • Only 8.5% prefer to be single

We 💖 love

In a relationship, women said the most important thing to them was:

  • Love (46%)
  • Companionship (38%)
  • Stability (13%)
  • Sex (2%)


Let’s get physical, physical (or not)

For women, sexual frequency tends to be:

  • Once a year (4%)
  • Once a month (22%)
  • Once a week (34%)
  • 2-3 times per week (34%)
  • Every day (4%)

Quick math: 60% of women are having sex once a week or less


Things that go bump in the night

68% of women prefer sex at night
32% prefer sex in the morning


Mind the orgasm gap

 Unfortunately, in 2020 the pleasure gap still exists. According to our findings, women are less likely to have had an orgasm at their last sexual encounter than men. 


For more insights from our survey, follow Sustain on Instagram as we will be rolling out the results throughout the rest of the month.

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